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Wedding Invitation Wording



Getting your wedding invitation wording right can be a difficult task to complete. Your invitations are going to set the whole tone and theme for your wedding and so it is important that there aren't any blunders on your invitations.

In todays age most traditional wedding rules can be bent and adjusted, but you will still need to understand the basics of wedding invitation etiquette. So lets take a look at the basic rules of wording your invitation

Wedding Invitation Layout
It is customary in a formal wedding invitation to spell out everything, including the date and time of the wedding.

So, for example, the invite should read Five o'clock in the evening not 5:00 p.m.

Traditional Wedding Responsibilities

Each bit of information occupies its own line and no commas or period's (.) are used, except between the location of the wedding and the city and state in which it will take place.

In its simplest form, the sequence of lines usually follows this order:

[proper names of those hosting]

request the honor of your presence [request line]
at the marriage of their [list relationship of the bride to the host]
[bride's first and middle names]
to
[groom's full name]
[day of week], the [day] of [month of wedding]
at [time of wedding] o'clock in the [time of day]
[name of the location of wedding]
[city], [state].

Reception to follow

If the bride's parents are hosting, it is customary to leave off the bride's last name. If the groom's parents are involved, the bride's last name should be included.

Wedding Invitation Wording Examples

If one set of parents is hosting your wedding, then their names should be at the top.

Mr. and Mrs. John J. Jones
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Mary
to
James John Jones

If both sets of parents are jointly hosting, you should list both on separate lines, with the bride's parents first.

Mr. and Mrs. John J. Jones &
Mr. and Mrs. Mark Robert Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their children
Mary Ann Smith
to
James John Jones

When one couple is hosting, but you'd like to honor non-hosting parents by including them on the invitation (a respectful gesture and a very wise political move), you simply make a point of noting their relationship to the bride or groom under that person's name.

Mr. and Mrs.Mark Robert Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Mary Ann
to
James John Jones
son of
Mr. and Mrs. John J. Jones

If the couple is planning to host the wedding, the invitation begins with the request line.

The honor of your presence
is requested at the marriage of
Miss Mary Ann Smith
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Robert Smith
and
Mr. James John Jones
son of Mr. and Mrs. John J. Jones

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